Jewel..

What does it feel like to be called a "jewel"? At times parents don't really compliment their kids.. but what they don't realize is that paying a compliment, does more than jus making your kids feel wonderful.
I was watching TV y'day.. and suddenly dad came out of his room and told me.
Dad: I m happy when you are happy..
Avoni: (just smile..)
Dad: I m happy when u r happy.. and i m sad when u r not happy....
Avoni: (still smiling.. ) why so daddy?
Dad: because you are my jewel..
Then he walked down the stairs..

You see giving compliments, enables ur kids to have more confident in themselves.. and secured in every sense... muacks.. !!!

Cute things my dad does...

I was in my room, and suddenly i heard my dad callin/yellin for me. so i rush down to see what happened. Then there he was at the gas stove, with a spoon in hand and eating the fried rice, STRIAGHT from the frying pan. He hand over his spoon to me and said:-
Dad: here.. here.. Avoni.. eat this..
Avoni: (laughin) haha... erm.. You eat it..
Dad: C'mon.. try this.. it was made for moses.. leftover.. its good..
Avoni: (still laughin) I'l eat it later.. (in an attempt not to eat.. hahaha)
Dad: no no.. eat now.. its warm now.. later it will become cold.. che che.. eat.. eat..
Avoni: (laughing.. and thinking how childish my dad has become. ) mmm... its nice..
Dad: See thats why i called you to eat..
Avoni: (continues laughin.. )

ANOTHER INCIDENT..
Dad was working in his office. Then i went over to call someone/or do something/aya i forgot for what., hahah.. nwas then he was coming out of the Chapel.. and seeing me he called out my name, then i was like "hi daddy.." and waited for him to come.. As soon as he reached me, He raised his hand (in hi-five manner..) and said.. "c'mon hi-five" then i was like feeling awkward and shy (cos his students were there.. ) and I just said, "okok.. here..' and gave him a hi-five.. ten still he ask for somemore.. hahaha...
My cute daddy..

My cat...

My cat.. my very cute cat...

Loves to be pampered and cared for.. just like muah...

she's the cutest u can get..

Purrs n meows everytime i m around.. probably fishing for attention..

When i m busy or at the computer... she'l climb up my chair and rub her soft body against my back, my arms, or play with my clothes..

and when she, out of her playful nature, starts straching me, i give her "that" look, after which.. she purrs softly, luks at me with a disappointed face and silently goes away..

It gets funnier.. Like when i go to the loo.. she will hurriedly follow me.. and accompany me there... and wait for me until i m done.. (like a good galfren.. hehe..)

Whenever i try to trick her into not following me.. she is even quicker... follows me up and down the stairs.. in and out of rooms.. finally i get rid of her by closing the door shut before she comes in..

Whenever i m in the kitchen.. she'l give me "that" purr... the kind thats says. gimme food...

and when i give her, she'l keep quiet but not eat the food.. because apparently she has ALREADY been fed.. but she just wants my attention..

such a cute animal..

Makes me feel so wanted...

muacks.. !!

Conversation wit MUM..

Preview: Mum and Dad had been out-of-station from friday until today (sunday) They went for some kinda picnic, which i was unable to go for various reasons.. LOL.. Nwas they call home from time-to time to check on us. So y'day being Valentines day, I decided to give them a scare..
I was out y'day not celebrating V'day, but to help my two kids (not biological okie? so get that out of ur mind.. lol) whom i mentor in singing.. (as they had to sing today..) At that time Mum calls..
MUM: Hello.. how r u?
Avoni: good..
MUM: can I talk to MIRANDA? (btw.. miranda is my cousin who lives wit us.. she is like second-mummy.. cos she's like totally incharge of the house wen mum's not there.. hahaha.. )
Avoni: I m out.. What is it?
Mum: U r out? Where?
Avoni: oh.. ofcourse i m out.. today's Valentines day.. uno.. (said in an animated voice.. )
Mum: What? where? with whom??
Avoni: i'l tell you when u get back..
Mum: tell me.. where.. which restuarant.. where exactly are you? (she spoke non-stop)
Avoni: I said i will tell you when you come back.. (still laughin.. )
Mum: Aya.. don't hide.. c'mon..
Avoni; just tell me what you have to tell miranda.. then i'l call her and pass the messsage..

END..

TODAY>. SUNDAY.. Mum calls again... i m in the Loo.. so brother picks up..
Mum: hey where did Avoni go y'day?
Benry: Avoni? I don know.. (blur blur.. ???)
Mum: ya saturday.. where did she go? was she at home?
Benry: I think she was at home?
Mum: R u sure..?
Then at that moment.. i hear from my bathroom...
Avoni: (SHOUTING...) I went out y'day.. (in an attempt to carry out my bluffing to the end.. )
Benry: oh oh.. mummy she was out y'day..
Mum: ask her with who?
Benry: Aya.. you ask her..
Avoni: Tell her i'l tell her later.. when she back..
Benry: che che.. she'l tell you later.. so wait ok.

END.. Then later after she get back home.. She asks sister, where i went and with whom i went y'day.. my sis knows about my plan, so she goes along and tells her,, i don't know..

Dad: so where were u y'day?
Avoni: out.. c'mon its V-day..
Mum: C'mon tell me with whom..
avoni: why don't you guess?? It mit be someone you know..
Mum: Oh oh i know.. ******* (she tells the name of a person, someone whom both mum n dad likes very much.. 0
dad: is it?
Avoni: mmm.. how did you know?
Dad: (speaks confidently..) cos your mum dreamt about it.. her dreams are never wrong..
Mum: yeah.. i dreamt about it..
Avoni: (laughing...) hahha.. wow.. u r really great...
Then suddenly my other cousin who lives with us (name: Ren), could not bear to hear all this bluffin..
Ren: (she laughs out.. ) hahaha.. both of you have been bluff.. haha. see thats why u must not believe dreams.
Avoni: hahahah.. I m really goood in bluffing..

END...

Story... Real life and fantasy.. MEET..

Recently i have been trying my hand at writing a story, like a novel. And hence i thought maybe i will mix real life events so as to make it realistic and so that people can connect to it...
But all the events happening around me now seems too unreal to be believed by people although it DID happen... Only those that i have fantasized appeared mor real than the real events..

Sometimes i wonder why bad things happen to good people.. but amidst all that we know that God has his hand in all this so HIS best is the best for all, although it may seem unfair for now..

Recently my brother has lost two of his best friends in a bike accident and the third one is still under treatment in the hospital... one spot dead.. but the other had to undergo alot, he was in a coma from the day of the accident until the day he died.. (from 26th jan until feb 9) sometimes i wonder, why God had not woken him even once, so that he can talk to his parents even if it is for the last time... He was a very intelligent, handsome, tall and good boy.. and most of all YOUNG.. he had sooo much to live... nwas whatever happened, God had his good intention...

teaching...

Seems like teaching is also one of my many passion.. filling in for dad and amongbi is so interesting.. like the feeling that i get while interacting with the students (of which most are way older than me, cos it is a seminary) or while expaining.. or that joy that you feel when they tell you.. ,"thats why we like you.." I tell you.. everyone of you should try teaching!!! Also my knowledge abuot the subject also grows, cos now all that i have learnt from my teachers are now put to practice and furthermore, i m doing further research, so that more beneficial!!! hah!!

Saturday!!! This coming saturday is also goin to be an exciting day...
LIke our church (the traditional one...) has this junior choir.. where the members are small and cute.. so this saturday i was asked to give them a seminar on music (theory and vocal..) so i m now brainstorming how to teach them...
Its quite interesting cos teaching them will be diffirent from teaching adults.. so i m planing to put in games and lots of activities, in between the lectures... LOL... hope they will be enlighten wit what i teach them...

Responsibilities!!!

Dad and one of his teachers has gone for two weeks to attend a conference in Malaysia.. well this leaves me with a BIG headache and a challenge... (LOve the latter but hate the former..) well.. since i will be here in nagaland for the two weeks that they are gone.. both of them entrusted me with their classes... so starting from tuesday i will be taking bible and music classes as well.. it will indeed be a challenging experience (for the bible.. cos music is quite manageable... but this is the first time i m going to be teaching bible subjects!!!) and so happens that my dad's classes are the modules that i have taken in TCA.. What a blessing!!! So in a way.. i will be deepening my learning by reasearching more, studying more.. (Cos thats what you do when u teach ryt??)... THOSE who are reading this.. PRAY FOR ME!!!!
But amidst all these challenges, the greatest joy that i will get is taking over the choir (since the teacher incharge is going with dad!!) i know its crazy but I LOVE conducting the choir.. Its not only teaching them a new choir piece.. but getting to grill them to a greater heights and then seeing them improve tremendously.. and also the respect that the choir members lavish upon the conductor!! LOL... And then when you see them perform, you can proudly say thats my choir!! Or sometimes (when they do badly) just be nervously sitting, or (barely sitting) and hoping that they will stop making mistakes!!! LOL...
BTW to all my FRENS in SINGAPORE.. I MISS you guys!!!! LOVE you.. and See you soon!!